Something had to give.
Emily had to be sleep trained.
Now if you're against letting a baby "cry it out," then don't do it. But we did. And it worked. And we're all happier for it.
So here's how it went down...
We decided we would do "check-ins." Some know this is the Ferber Method. Basically, you let the baby cry, but check in on her at specified intervals, staying only for a moment, then leaving. First night we tried this, it took her an hour to fall asleep. Then she woke up again. After an hour and a half of check-ins, I gave in and nursed her to sleep. The 2nd night wasn't much better, and spoiler alert, I folded again. We decided we weren't ready.
That was about 2 weeks ago. Then this past weekend...
We went hardcore. No check-ins. It had to be done. And you know what?! It worked!
First night: 45 minutes of crying before she was down. She woke up 5 times. Twice she fell asleep within 10 minutes, the other 3 times took a bit longer, but nothing over an hour. We never went in.
Second night: 45 minutes to fall asleep, up once. Took her an hour to fall back asleep. Progress.
Third night: 20 minutes to fall asleep, up once for 20 minutes. More progress.
Fourth night: exact same as third night. OK, not progress, but we didn't regress either.
Fifth night: 2 minutes to fall asleep, up once for 2 minutes. WHAT?!?! She slept from 7pm until 6am.
That was last night. So here's hoping it stays this strong.
A word of advice, don't do this without someone to be strong with you and remind you you're not a terrible person. Oh, and lots of bourbon.




































